<<I won't work with photographers that don't permit me to bring an escort along.>>

I'm way new to even exploring modeling at all, but I would think that this would send up a huge red flag to me. I am totally comfortable with the possibility of erotic modeling, however there is no way I would go to a photoshoot without an escort--be that one of my guys or a friend who happened to be available at the time. Neither of my s.o.'s would get obnoxious/jealous unless things were going way too far (I highly doubt penetration and/or manhandling would be on their list of things that were ok--lol). And, in my opinion, photography is one thing whereas video is something entirely different. How can you change a contract in the middle of things? Ugh! That is quite a bit scary to this newbie.

So, this leads me to the question of how do you set your boundaries? Erotic modeling would be one thing for me, engaging in sexual acts with someone else would be quite another. Forgive me if I sound naive about this stuff. Like I said, I'm very new to all of this.

PayRoll,

Glad you agree with my post. It is hard for a lot of modern people to trust those pesky instincts, but I get by pretty well with mine.

If you're interested in a bay-area local model, drop a note my way. I'd like to check out your work and discuss possibilities. Now that the holiday chaos is finally over, I am dusting off my wardrobe pieces and doing more shoots. :-)

Cheerfully,
- D
All of the above.